3 SPOT ON questions to know if this is the man for you

  1. Is he adding to your life ?
  • Make your needs clear and see if he makes small strides to meet them- Ex: your need- I would like to be heard when I am speaking. Small stride- takes better care to be an active listener allowing you the space to get your full thought out
  1. Is he qualified to help you reach your goals ?
  • Tell him what your goals are and see if he takes an invested interest – EX: asks you questions about it to help you get clearer about your options, makes suggestions, or is encouraging and supportive of where your going
  1. Is he someone you could grow with
  • Notice what qualities you want in your life for the long run. Is your partner someone who is a strong leader? or someone who can follow your lead but step up when necessary?

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